The adventure continues--part 3

[AFWAW]

There is no other way for you to interpret her hesitation, other than that she IS intentionally wanting to leave herself free to contact -- and even be with -- OM.

THIS IS WHAT IS DRIVING ME MAD AT THIS POINT!!!!!!

But I can't set a deadline. I even asked her last night if the OM stopped by would you answer the door? She said probably. I said why? She said I don't know, I would answer the door if you stopped by as well. I told her this is why I wanted her at home. She said she didn't think it was fair to me to see her getting over OM and she needed some time. Mother #$##%#$#$!!!! This is so freaking frustrating at this point. I feel like I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.

So, I ask again what's the best way to resovle this? Should I just wait or do I give a deadline or do I start popping over?

She asked what D and I were doing this weekend. I said I was considering taking her to the beach. I asked if she wanted to go with and she said no I think I'm going to go shopping. Not 2 minutes before that she had said she was broke basically. How am I supposed to interpret that? So I asked her, would you like me to go with you? Her response, we'll see how it goes tomorrow night, I just want to take things slow? What is this? A freaking test? I have been tested and tested and tested and I'm sick of this.