We don't have kids, but have 5 animals. One of them is an elderly dog who is like our son. When this all began H was going to the house every day to walk him. Last week, I changed it to twice a month. I can't deprive him of seeing the dog or of the dog spending time with him. He absolutely adores my H and is really getting up there in years. So, I think the best tact is to help out if you have to, but as infrequently and quickly as possible.
