Having a live-in is one of the toughest things you will ever do. Reading the resources is a must. You will need to be twice as understanding while finding your balance of what you can and cannot tolerate for you and the kids.
Really understand what path he is on, as well as the path that YOU need to be on . It really does help YOU.
Don't try to figure out if it is MLC or not...cause ultimately, it doesn't matter. What matters is the way YOU do the things for you through this. Think of it as a two-for-one special at the store. He is going through things to find....whatever, but you do as well. It is a great gift to give that AND receive that too.
