I just have to say this...not because I feel the need to stick up but because it is the God's honest truth.
BND and Jack know more about this than anyone should, and if you are getting advice from either, feel privileged. They know what they are talking about.
This board may be about support, but really how supportive would we be if we just coddled each other and said "oh its okay?"
Mistakes are okay, as long as you learn from them
Well said!!!
Everyone needs a 2x4 sometimes. If everyone sugar coated everything then we would not get very far in our situations. Of course we want to hear all positive feedback but in reality...it isn't going to happen.
