On the other hand (it's ok to babble in here right?) When my back went out on me the other day she drove 45 minutes to bring me meds and to hang out until I could get back on my feet. So to a certain extent this is reciprocal.

I tell you what I could sure use some feedback please.

(and btw I have been calling counselors for a couple of days trying to get an appointment. I know I need to talk about this with someone outside of this forum, but I am trying like hell to avoid talking to friends and family).

Last edited by clueless; 04/23/09 06:45 PM.