"Any time she totally submits and opens herself completely to me like that, it melts my heart to experience the complete TRUST that I am being given. It makes me just as much hers, as she is mine, regardless of who is the "D" and who is the "s"."

This is the part that many people don't really "get" about dominance and submission play. It is totally about trust and love. It is not about violence or rape or pain. But that's obviously confusing to people who don't play that way, because from the outside it can look like rough, painful sex with a guy who is a jerk and a woman who is being victimized.

But the love and trust necessary to play this way are very very powerful and seductive in their own right....

DQ