TH,

Yes to your first question.

After reading about your night, I admit, that what I took away was a planned ambush of your H.

The question much earlier about where were I and BND? : ) We where right here in MLC Land. I don't post in Newbies, for several reasons, I'm not new. I don't have the patience for the BS, conflicting advice and he who yells loudest is correct. I am too blunt.

Same reason I do not post in Divorced but not Done, Seperated, or Infidelity...they aren't areas I have experience in. Well the last two yes...but MLC is the primary for my wife.

IF someone makes it to MLC on their own...then they have a chance of making it through all the BS and strife that goes along with it.

You REALLY have to look at a persons experience and how it affects the advice they are gving you.

Bottom line, you're on a Divorce Busting website looking for ADVICE not support. I'm going to blast anyone who goes against the principals of DBing and Michele Davis Weiner.

No I am not a professional, but my wife had a mid life crisis, an affair, left our children...blah, blah, blah...same story different names. So in this I have some experience and some advice.

You know...there is not one size fits all soultion...if there was this would be a guarentee to work.

: )

But you know what...

There are some one size fits all mistakes you can make if you DON'T want to be married.

If you listen to me, I will never tell you not to stand up for yourself. But I sure as sure will tell you when I think you screwed up...and others too.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet