Wow! So you have been saying all along that it (the M) will never work as long as he has two jobs, and now he has admitted that he cannot handle having two jobs any more! Even if he sees it as a matter of survival (which I "get" bc my H says all the time that the pressure/stress of his job is killing him), it is still a win-win. If he quits or even cuts in half the time at one of the jobs, that will give him more time for 'life', including you guys. He probably is wearing himself down with both jobs and I bet it is good for his survival to quit one. But it can also do great things for the two of you and for your kids.
