The Bumpy Road to Recovery #3

[Bagheera]

Does that work for ya?

Very well, thanks to you both. And both of your answers are pretty much along the lines of how I thought she was feeling about it --> but I did desire the confirmation, without asking a leading question.

Part of my reason for asking was to simply supply myself with some more intellectual ammunition to aim at my inner Nice Guy to shut him up (it's like the old comics, where I have a little angelic-clad Nice Boy on my right shoulder and a develish-looking Bad Boy on the left). The Bad Boy had fun last night!

Part of my reason for asking is my very male, orgasm-oriented view toward sexual encounters. I've come a long way in learning to relish in the moment, and enjoy the journey, but the female ability to thoroughly enjoy only a partial-journey some of the time is still a bit foreign to my male brain -- I would be frustrated. I've already found myself plotting how I could make it even hotter for her next time so that she -does- come with me, which is missing your points, above.

But I do get it, because from my perspective, it was VERY primal, VERY satisfying, and VERY -connecting- between the two of us. Any time she totally submits and opens herself completely to me like that, it melts my heart to experience the complete TRUST that I am being given. It makes me just as much hers, as she is mine, regardless of who is the "D" and who is the "s".

-- B.