Ali, you are going to love this. I just got off the phone with H. He said he cant be living like this anymore and he needs to quit one job. He said he cant be coming over and sleep on the couch all the time ( I didnt mention this lately), and that his body is falling apart. I told him it's good that he brings that up because I was going to tell him the same thing how I cant go on like this. End of story, no excuses, no sugar coating. It isnt working for me either.
He said right now he cant think of us, its even more basic, like a survival thing. I thanked him for that comment and he got sour and said "of course you take this personal and I knew you would". Well, it sounded bad the way he said it in Greek, cant explain it in English, more like "I dont even care about seeing you guys more, I need to rest".
I suggested possible scenarios that would allow him to keep both jobs but for example work as an advisor to the morning one, going once or twice a week at the office and he said he will think about it. K
