WAW1

[markhaving probs]

My wife has just tried call me on a landline and mobile because I did not respond to some angry emails she has sent to me this afternoon, and the fact I did not agree to having the children when I was going out and she wanted me to have them overnight so she could stay out all night. She then followed up the angry emails with one asking me if the little ramp her father made was easier for me to get the lawnmower in!!!! The hell is going on?

I ignored all efforts by her to contact me, she then left a voicemail saying she cannot understand me as I have not answered her attempts to contact me. This is all because I do not want to feel pushed around anymore, she does not respect me as she is clearly in an A now, new clothes, underwear, is now drinking and mixing "with adults at barbeques"! I have continually concerned myself with not trying to upset her, as soon as I don't go running to her as soon as she texts or phones, she tries to call me, typical WAW behaviour I feel. I also found our names tags we had for our wedding was in the bin, and a pin cushion with our names and wedding day date, etc has been shoved into a drawer. I felt awful, what does this tell me - is she purging me out of her life, what should I read into it, and should I say something?

As blunt as I sound I want to make sure I do not come across as evasive, difficult and non-responsive. This is partly what got me to this situation in the first place. I am angry she is deceiving me and treating me like crap, but I just felt a tiny bit better this afternoon. I want to reconcile but I know I will have to 'man up' to do it because of the way she feels about me. It is a thin dividing line.