The Bumpy Road to Recovery #3

[Bagheera]

I have a question for the ladies, stemming from something LuckyGirl said regarding a 'Saturday morning surprise' that I gave my wife a couple of week ago:

Yank... off... panties...

Exxxxcellent! Yum.

Last night I took this a step further. It was late, the kids were long since asleep, and my wife and I were unwinding, each in our own areas of the house. On a horny whim, I strode into the room where she was, turned down the light, shut the door, walked over to her and tilted her head back, kissed her, and told her "I want you, right now." I then had her pleasure me manually, then orally, and ended up with her bent over the chair, panties yanked down, while I took her from behind. The entire scene was one of "sexually dominant man 'taking' his woman," with no real attentioon given to stimulating her (and no O for her either).

Stipulation 1: the above is an infrequent occurrence, and still a bit out-of-character for me. Mutual satisfaction during sex is very important to me, and during most encounters I do a decent job of building her arousal state and giving her opportunities for orgasm. So she doesn't lack for slower, more reciprocal sex with me.

Stipulation 2: She is generally happy in the relationship now, feels like her needs are bieng met, and we have a solid emotional connection.

So the questions for the women are: What did she get out of this? How did it make her feel?

She submitted willingly and with only token protest, and apparently enjoyed it from all the indications that I got. We both stayed up and read for a while afterwards, then had a nice spoon and cuddle as we drifted off to sleep in bed.

I know how I felt about it, and I -think- I know how she did, but I'd like to hear form the ladies on this.

-- B.