Isn't it odd, they are creating a self fulfilling prophecy... mine is doing this very same thing. He expresses that he doesn't want this, he misses me, he loves me, how did we get here, on and on and on. Yet, every action is a step toward the very things he "says" he is afraid of and does not want. Every step. He spends his time with the og, then calls me and texts me when she's gone about how miserable he is. A person who is thinking rationally simply cannot see why they continue to go down this path. It is utterly bizarre.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher