I do think it's time you mapped out your boundaries and took control. No more OM. Counseling NOW (grow the F up, already... patient confidentiality is a law). Fulfill the role of wife and mother.
An ultimatum? Doesn't that go against DB?
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You said that it wouldn't bother you to sleep with her again after she's been with another man.
IT DOES BOTHER ME but if she came back and agreed not to do it again I would not let it bother me. Oh, it bothers me a lot.
Thanks Lucky
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!