Yep, I agree. If I do make it to the next "stage" it will be SSM for me, not piecing... LOL
fb2 if we do divorce and he is "off with OW" and she is the one I am wrong about, I will mad as hell for all the lies. I will be hurt and disapointed and will get over it, not without tears and pain. Thankfully, there will be no change in my everyday life except the fact that we will go back to one weekend for him one for me with kids. I will be sad and probably for a long time that we failed but I think I will manage to go on with my life. Maybe when time is right we can be friends.
Ali, I dont care to explain his actions or non actions anymore. Sweets, what is the result? We can try and play shrinks but I cant make him love me the way I need him to.
Today he called once, really down "about his work, too much of it" and nothing else. If I do say something I will be cruel and mean since I will show I dont understand the pressure he is under. I dont and end up to resent him. Nothing new there...
Yeah, the Stosny book. I keep it my little library in my toilete. K
