Actually, I've always thought that M was just a piece of paper. People will do what they want regardless of it (it most cases). So I am fine with it, that was me before M.
I have a co-worker that I've been talking to through all of this. She has never been M & has been w/her BF for 25 years!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)