I have offered several times. Different answers each time. First time, I don't need to go, I know what I need to do. Second time, I don't want to get into trouble.
When I went off on her the other day and told her she was an f#$%ing lunatic and told her she better get some help she said she knew she needed to but didn't want to get into trouble.
I gotta be honest, if this goes down with a divorce, I feel I have to expose her and OM to the military. I don't want to do it but I feel obligated to do so. She will hate me and her career and quite possibly his career will be over but I really don't care right now.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!