I don't think I need definite evidence of an A. I just got her off my FB - thanks for the suggestion.

FIL sent an email overnight. Said he's afraid I don't fully realize how much H has gone off the deep end, and has 'turned the corner'. Strong hints that H has become involved with OW I believe. Offered to talk more about that if I need to. Also a strong suggestion that if I need to talk to H or have him talk to the kids, this is the time.

Not sure why he put it that way. I'm supposed to be giving him his space. Is he indicating if I want him back, I better contact him? But if the FB and emails are trying to tell me H is involved, then this isn't the time to make contact - right??

GAL activities -

jogging
spending time with friends
reading
watching son play basketball