The adventure continues--part 3

[AFWAW]

Did you tell her that she can have all of those things WITH YOU if she gives you a chance and if she is committed to working with you and helping you to get there?

I did tell her this. She said with the other guy she doesn't have to tell him what she needs. The thing is, he's leaving in Oct and then what? She told me she shouldn't have to work at it, it should just happen. I said it can't work like that.

And, how great can this guy really be? He's cheating on his wife and taking another man's wife. Just another wayward soul.

I know, I pointed this out again and again. She knows this but still persists. She even went so far as to tell me that she asked her friends at work who they thought was more compatible for her. She told me that they said that OM was. I said are your friends insane? I told her these are not good friends.

She needs therapy NOW. You both need MC NOW.

She does need help. I have encouraged, begged and pleaded that she do get help. I gave her the phone number and even offered to pay for it.

I'm honestly about at the end. I don't know how much more I can put up with this.