Dropping the rope

[peacetoday]

H over to see kids last night
again he said he would only stay 1-1.5 hours and he wasnt going to give me any extra time to go to church

I said to him when he was leaving
This is only hurting the kids
he said
"you chose this"
"this is the consequences for you wanting custody a certain way"

What he was realing sating is that b/c I fought and spent extra money and time during mediation about H and LIve in GF not getting kids except for 1 night every 2 weeks.
b/c I didint want kids to meet OW
( a women who was sleeping with my H while we were together)
H sees it as I hurt him , so its my fault that he wont help me and he wants to PUNISH me

I guess he is still hurt that things didnt go his way in the D..He didnt have the extra money to fight me on these issues b/c he spent it all on OW

So
Its funy how this man wants me to FEEL consequences

hes the one who lost
his wife
his house
His business
His kids
his credit
IN debt 50-75,000

peace