I dont think Im dangling him on a string.. and I dont expect him to beg me for anything.. I did break the trust.. I just have no idea what to do i guess.. I've always been "see a problem, make a decision, fix it.".. and this is not that simple.. I am wishy washy..but about what i dont know...
At some point we will have to meet in the middle...and I guess i was saying that until he is ready.. Im not pushing the issue.. there is no point. YEs we have 2 small children 6,7