Hi Lost, I'm glad you found your self-respect and are taking a stand. You are taking your power back in the relationship. Good for you.
But be prepared, he will cry, beg, promise you the world, probably try to blame YOU for his many affairs...but as many on here can attest to a person who has many, many affairs is very unlikely to stop.
Ignoring his pleas & empty promises is a VERY VERY hard thing to do. I think one of the biggest things to get through to yourself & understand is.... HE WILL NOT CHANGE. YOU can't love him enough to change because he doesn't love himself.
I hope you have a counselor lined up to talk you through the hard parts, please come here & vent, ask for help in how to deal with the emotions, etc.
As many on here have been fond of saying when a member of this forum gets to this point... no emotions, this is now just business..
be the woman you want your daughters to grow into as you deal with this man and extract him from your & their lives.
Hugs from Iowa & ditto to what Purple said. Bridgestone
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
