Gyps, thanks. I was really expecting to get the "you must be 100% transparent" with someone you really care for answer. It does seemm like a bad idea. I won't lie if it comes up, but not revealing it seems to me not to be lying. As someone posted to me "Share it when she shares her PAP results".
Smarmy came in to see my attorney and admitted he helped D17s school payment when she was at the "school for bad kids", and admitted that he had a contractor do 16K worth of work on MY basement. All when I was in Iraq, taking rocket and mortar fire every day for 365 days! WHAT AN AMERICAN!