I have read some of your situation and I really hope you get through this troubled time. I did not want to hijack your posts because I need to ask a question that PositivlyMommy sent to you in a recent post.
She said because your wife is showing lots of emotion rather than apathy she still cares and your situation is not DONE. With my situation my wife is fast tracking to divorce for whatever reason but I believe is still in turmoil because of the argument we had on Monday over money. We then seemed to go back to our relationship when she said she never loved me, doesn't like me and it is the best thing for us and the children etc. My question is (and I hope PM can provide some advice)as my wife cannot wait to be divorced is my situation DONE?
At the moment there is absolutely no way my wife will reconcile and we will definately divorce. That is not pessimism it is fact. As I have said I will concentrate on the children and me as you and PM advised brilliantly, but does anyone believe there is a path back or are we too far gone?
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years