I'm ready to wake up now...........

[Silent Chrleader]

Just remember, the "online" guy is filling that empty void.

Giving you validation and making you feel good about yourself.

Kinda how the OW does for your Husband.

Keep things in their proper perspective and take it SLOW!!!!!!

((((hugs))))

I know, BND. You are totally right. The flirting and stuff is such a salve to my to battered emotions. I have talked to my C about him and I have been totally open and honest with him about my situation and my fears and concerns........not just for getting hurt, but for hurting him as well.

But, he is going through some tough times too and we just seem to be filling that void for each other. And we haven't actually "met" yet, so there's a kind of security in anonymity that has allowed us to open up a bit more with each other than we otherwise would have. It's an interesting dynamic going on, but I am trying to keep things in perspective and yes, take it SLOW!

Thank you for your continued "mentorship" of me [[[[[BND]]]]]. I really appreciate the help keeping my feet on the ground!