Don't apologize for venting. That's what this place is for. Get it out here so it doesn't come out somewhere else.

Well, I guess the obvious solution is to un-friend the OW! Yes, snooping can get you stuck in an obsessive pit of despair. You need to decide if you want/need definitive proof of an EA/PA. If not, then get her off your FB immediately.

Worrying and obsessing isn't doing you any good. You cannot control anything other than yourself. I know, easier said than done. Do practice the thought stopping. Throw yourself into GAL activities. What are yours?

Last edited by pearlharbr; 04/23/09 05:16 AM.
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