^ Amen!

I think you did a great job too Silver. You were calm, pleasant and validated.

Jon is right, he wants you to be a guest at his pity party. You can, and did, politely decline.

It's all about actions or lack thereof.

I refused to see xBF until he told me he was done with OW. And that turned out to be not true so I refused to see him again until he quit his bowling team. Actions.


If you love somebody, set them free.
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