Kevin,

I agree with you. I definitely will not be ready to date for a long time so it isn't an issue for me! I need a lot of healing time. Just makes me wonder how my H is able to move on so quick....

Thanks Jag. As with yourself, I have no question what is right for me. I am still in pieces right now. I don't think I'm up for the dating market :-)

Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09