Starting to get "It" #2

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Update:

Just got back from the funeral. W didn't go and that was fine. I told her that I would tell everyone she said hi and she was sorry she couldn't come and she appreciated it. The funeral was sad, but it was nice to see all of them. I got to see my sister again and we had a good time together before we left.

My SIL called me on the way home and cried that she is so sorry this is happening and that no matter what happens, I am welcome at all family functions and will be apart of her and her kids' lives. That touched me and told her that I appreciated it but I am not giving up hope. But that no matter what happens I will make sure that I am a part of their lives.

As far as the friends go, I am staying out of everything but my W can't say no and I am not sure I can either, but I am not making myself available right now. She is right in the middle of the new friends problems and comforting her friend. It is ironic that she is comforting her friend who is in the same position I am while W is the same as friend's husband. He wasn't getting enough attention and emotion from her so he had an EA and then dropped the bomb and left. Same sitch as us reversed, however W is seeing it from her friend through her (or my) eyes. Maybe this good? I don't know. She told me last night that she can believe the H isn't even willing to try to work on the marriage? Again, good sign or no?

W told me a couple of times that she had been talking to OM again about him losing his job. I texted him today and asked him to not contact W anymore and he said ok. W called me pissed that I did this. I was probably stupid. 2x4 coming from 25 and Sandi Before that little mishap, I have been doing really good. I guess the 3 hour drive home today was more than I could handle. Anyway, we have another MC tomorrow so it should be interesting as MC wants to talk about OM. Not sure what is going to happen, but I am not sure if it will be good.

I'll update tomorrow after the MC.

LonelyRzr