Stuck...
Let me explain the reason for my suggestion.

TH does have a pride issue, as does her Husband.

Neither of them knows how to communicate properly with one another.

I have described their relationship as a Mexican stand off.

For her to apologize would be a HUGE 180.

Stuck, I mean no disrespect towards you but we are here to guide

one another and support one another.

Had it not been for the support and advice I received on these boards, I would be Divorced by now.

MLC is not the same as a WAS.

It is a completely different animal, and if not handled with kid gloves, you will not get the results you want.

And, as for the comment to Kimmie, I totally agree with Jack.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.