I just focus on my relationship with my H. The way I look at it we have kids together and are always going to be a part of eachother's lives. I want us to always be friends, so that's what I'm focusing on right now. It took a while, but I don't think about what he does when I'm not around so much. If it does pop into my head I do whatever I can to push the thought out. Sometimes that means I'm loudly singing whatever's on the radio, but I do it because it takes my mind off of the things I don't want there.
