HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[MrBond]

Just to be clear. Our "job" on these boards are not to "guide" the posters. We offer an opinion and that's that.

The only guide we should follow is DB and it says if something doesn't work, then do something different. Kimmie's right in that there is no one size fits all method.

In my own personal sitch, if I didn't stand up for myself like TH did, my W would have been long gone.

The way each one of us approaches our problems is based on us and our WASs as individuals. We on the boards don't know TH and her H. Maybe this has worked for them in the past. I'm sure each of us can look at our own sitches and noticed that we've done things that went against DBing a little but they worked.

Let's face it, this isn't our website. It's Michele's and she laid the groundwork. We aren't the professionals here. Just regular people each with our own stories.

There's enough pain and anger and hurt from all our sides. Let's not continue it on here. If we can validate what our WASs say to us, then surely we can validate what everyone here is doing. You don't have to agree, but encourage and offer a suggestion rather than condemn.