Dont fall into the revenge A trap, you dont need that guilt on your conscience. Dont update him on what your doing, unless he asks, then be vague. Im getting together with the girls, instead of wanda, nancy, sara and I are heading to red lobster at 6:30 friday evening. Keep your communications positive, and end you end the conversation. Start an exciting new hobby, I learned to ride a motorcycle.

I would stop telling him if you are missing him, or love him, if he cant reciprocate, thats just destructive.

Yes, keeping up with the GALing and being positive will work, he will wonder what the heck you have been up to. And keep up the looking great, it'll go a long way towards your PMA and he will notice.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...