I understand wanting to protect yourself and your D. You absolutely should and the legal sep is the way to go. You have to understand that for the MLCer EVERYTHING is about them. A lot of them can be paranoid at times. Beleive me my wife is so being served the way he was will feed that feeling. Does that make sense?
I'm no expert at this so please understand that but I would love him from a distance for now and let things cool off. He has to feel safe with you and right now there is no way he is going to feel that way.
