Grrrrr.... I'm just reading this wishing you could be at your son's game with about three young, sexy women sitting next to you (just friends from church or your divorce group, nothing more, of course!!!) so W could get a "dose" of her own medicine. Sadly, she'll never know what losing her family feels like until it happens, and I know you are so honest and straightforward that won't happen until it's too late.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
