I am not sure.....

I think you need to apologize to your Daughter and your Husband.

To your Daughter for involving her.

To your Husband for the way you handled it.

You just posted that you want save this Marriage, that you want him back.

So please tell me how exactly you think that your actions yesterday show that to him?

I am not being a smartarse, I am being totally serious.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.