To my criticizers - thank you. I wish you had posted when I was wondering what I should do. No one posted advising that I shouldn't do it. It's easy to criticize afterwards. But not so easy to have the foresight to advise before when I was struggling with it.
You are an adult and you need to take responsibility for your own actions, you can not blame anyone else for what you did.
I am sorry too, because I have been posting to you and had you posted on my thread I would have told you to BE STILL.
You should keep posting here, BUT be selective about the ones you take advice from.
Stay away from the bitter ones who are angry and rally around those who are about to be Divorced like them.
Take advice from the ones who may be Divorced but are happy with their lives and will support you.
Take advice from those who even though they are Divorced have an amazing friendship with their Ex's and can guide you along this journey.
Take advice from those who have restored Marriages and can help you to not make the same mistakes that they have made.
(((hugs)))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
