In answer to your question my Husband was in MLC for many years, he was one of the absolute worst MLC'ers here. I think I actually posted one of his emails on this thread.
Had I followed the advice of people who were bitter and wanted revenge and had no thought of reconciling, then perhaps I too would have done some very stupid things to make absolutely sure that my Marriage would never be restored.
As for the self righteous thing, sorry if you perceive me to be that way. I got tired of posting sugar coated things a long long time ago, and found it much easier to post the truth, even if it sometimes hurts. After all there is a huge thing at stake, a Marriage and it is better to tell the truth rather then worry about hurt feelings.
Let me reiterate one thing, I have absolutely no issue whatsoever with filing for a Separation or even a Divorce. Each person knows when they are done, and when they have had enough. I chose to stand for my Marriage, and that also goes against the grain for many here.
And let me also remind you that this is not a game. The actions of TH were very harsh, and uncalled for. Probably once the dust has settled, she will see that for herself. I hope she is absolutely sure that she wants no part of a Marriage with this Man, because that little stunt pretty much blew it.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
