HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[trampledheart]

To my praisers - thank you. I hope I did the right thing, and I hope how it happened shocks him into his senses. I'm not going to expect that it will. I'm just going to pray and hope it will.

To my criticizers - thank you. I wish you had posted when I was wondering what I should do. No one posted advising that I shouldn't do it. It's easy to criticize afterwards. But not so easy to have the foresight to advise before when I was struggling with it.

D Money - My goal was to do what's best for me and my D first. And I was hoping that it would shock him into seeing what he's doing and what he's losing. I was scared but I decided it was time for me to do something, even it's at the risk of loosing it all. I read somewhere that you may have to come to that point sometime.

Sometimes I wonder how I can get advice from posters... I've noticed that I get comments afterwards from people, but not much beforehand when I'm struggling with an issue or an action to take or not...

I'm rather new here... and it's true, I am getting scared of posting because afterwards many want to comdemn my actions - when they had the opportunity to advise beforehand - and chose not to.

Trampledheart