update-

H home and we are busy with the store.

ow texted me today that she wants to talk to me, not fight with me. i did not answer. then she tried calling from another number. i did not answer.

i have nothing to say to her. i spoke to her with respect (even when i really didnt want to), in october and told her the truth. it seems she was unaware for a while that she was dating a married man.

but i laid it all out for me then, and she continued to see my husband and taunt me with it.

so now, honestly, let her heart break, as mine has over these last few years, i have nothing to say to her. nothing good could come out of it for me at this point.

i hope she meets someone her age, someone single and she moves on.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09