HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[trampledheart]

Jack,

My H had all the MLC signs - change in appearance (tanning, waxing, etc), partying all night, playing guitar in a rock band.

Maybe he's in stage 4 of MLC now, the Depression Stage? Or maybe after his second OW he's a WAS? He seemed to have become more settled, not drinking as much, not partying as much, looking tired, and maybe a little depressed.

I want him to come back, and he knows that... I'm hoping that H will not let that be the last time we do anything together. I asked him that night to not let him being served affect that. Only time will tell...

Trampledheart