"me - I'm done, I've tried to save my marriage for a good solid two weeks now and nothing, I'm going to take all the money out of our bank account go to Vegas and sleep with 4 prostitutes while drinking a 150 year old scotch....
My friends here - Good idea! Enjoy yourself. That'll teach her!"
? I'm not sure where this is from.
"Praise when we do well. Critisism when we do poorly. "
That's what happens when you support someone.
"A part of me was thinking how damned cool that was, right out of the First Wives Club and stick to the man...honest, that was cool. The other part is going...well, I'm hoping you wanted to be totally done with him."
She stuck up for herself which is a good thing. Even in a setting like that. I'm sure your sitch had its moments as well. There just comes a time when we start standing up for ourselves and not let the actions of our WASs affect us.
Jack was showing the difference between support and what we should actually be doing here which is keeping each other focused on DBing. Support is a small piece of keeping someone focused. When someone handles something the right way, you praise them. If they don't or are thinking about doing something the wrong way, you hit them with a 2x4.
Yes it's great she stood up for herself but there's a right way and a wrong way to do it.
TH - What's your goal? Is it to have a chance of reconciling? If so you're flushing it down the toilet handling it this way.
