HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[MrBond]

BND,

You're being wayyy to harsh. For one thing, TH has been at this for over two years and has been debating doing "anything" for that long. So finally she decides to do something and stand strong to protect her and her D.

I applaud her for it and you should too. When someone finds the strength to stand up for themselves and start to re-build their self esteem that has been shattered by a WAS, then they need to be built up and not torn down.

Is the timing unfortunate? Sure. But let's face it, there's never going to be a perfect time.

On top of that, her D is an adult. I can see if she's young, but she is old enough to see what is what. Her father wasn't there for her. Period. It's up to her to see how she wants to deal with it. You have an older daughter. Tell me how if you told her to disrespect her father on purpose, that she would do it against her will.

You've been at this for 4 years just from your signature. How long was your H in MLC? Is he still in it? When everything was going to pieces for you and you decided to stand up for yourself, what would have happened if a self-righteous person started berating you and saying you're doing the wrong thing? That's a terrible thing to do.

The last time I checked, there was only one person who could speak in absolute truths. And he could walk on water.

We're all here for one thing...support. We've all been in each others shoes. There's never a right or wrong decision. Just decisions whether good or bad.

Let's all remember that.

Peace