HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[trampledheart]

BND,

I got advice from my Atty on how to serve, thank you. I don't think the Courts are swayed by who serves, as long as it's done within the constraints of the legal process. Did the "way" you serve help your outcome? I doubt it had any bearing.

And as far as being mad that H used our assets for his OW, yes I was mad, but not mad enough... You do not have any idea what I've been through, or know how many times I've been trampled on by my H. It's been a long 2 years and so much had transpired that most people view me as weak. I've become accustomed to his abuses that I no longer have energy to stand up for myself.

If he is being an assh*le to his daughter, then daughter won't respect him. He actually disowned her at the start of all this. And THAT is another story in itself.