Wondering how to handle things

[Sanderika]

Hi kissak,

I think they are either related or they both have read the same how-to manual "Life in MLC Land for Dummies".

Just last night my H called my cell at 8:50pm (I was upstairs getting my jammies on, my cell is in the kitchen) and when he didn't reach me that way he immediately rang the house phone.

Aw, your son would really like Daddy home. It breaks my heart what our kids have to go through. I hate it that they are old enough to remember this forever. My H doesn't even have a clue what this has done to our son and the damage it has caused to their relationship.

You are like me, I am not pursuing a D. I have no interest in dating. I am happy for you that he is still showing interest in coming home.

Like me you probably are always thinking of something you can change to spark more interest. Things I have tried to change lately are being more flirty and sympathethic towards him. The sympathy is easy and the flirting is hard. I am ever cautious not to end up hurting myself.

You sound really good I must say, I for one like being more in control of my emotions. Back at the beginning of this I was a "train wreck" 24/7 and I never thought I would be able to have a "good day" again and now I have them all the time.

Time hasn't healed my wounds, Time has made this easier to handle and I am a much better person for having lived through this ordeal.

It's all about looking forward and not looking back.

Make every day a "good day".....

Sanderika