If your WAS would agree...

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To his credit over the last 4 months he has really changed his spending. Normally when he is gone on a trip like this he would be out to eat and partying every night, but this time he has bought food to prepare in his room and not gone out but a very few times and only gotten cash a couple of times. We will actually make a pretty good chunk on travel money this trip. I've always heard of people doing that, but it never happened for us before. This was all done on his own. I did not suggest it at.

We would both be better off in the long run to get the debt paid down. He is very agreeable to the plan I came up with. However if he does not abide after he relocates then I file.