Tell me: in better times in the past, who would be the first one to initiate contact? If it was your W, then I'd say a very brief message to her about nothing consequential would be a 180 on your part, right? If you were the one to usually initiate, then sit pat and keep working on yourself and detaching.
Thanks for the advice.
Honestly, I feel it was 50/50 in terms of who would initiate contact. Sometimes it would be me, sometimes it would be her. It just depended on the situation. Maybe I will just think on it a little longer before I do anything. I am proud that I have been able to detach like I have and I don't want to let myself down. It was a lot of work to get to this point and I don't want to have to start from scratch again.
M 30 WAW 29 T 15 M 5 ILYBNILWY 3/8/09 Separated 3/14/09
