You cannot DB a Narcissistic or a Borderline. It just does not work and Borderlines are one of the scarier personality disorders I've seen.
And for those of you who think you can love someone out of their insanity, save your breath. I have spoken to my C at great length and there is no way in hell that these principles will be of any use with these BPD's, NPD's, etc. They are sociopaths at their very cores.
