DN, it almost sounds like you are ready to graduate from the DR/DB newbie forum! If you haven't already, it might be time for you to start reading posts over in the Piecing Forums. Good advice there for folks like you who are rebuilding their relationships and have willing spouses.
It's great to see a things going well for a fellow DB'er!
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09