Wow.. things really seem to have turned a bit of a corner hey, to think you barely spoke to him for a while there (around Christmas??). I'm amazed he was up for meeting again so soon, ubt not only that, but that he came into town on a day he would have worked from home and then met you for lunch afterall. And whats this about the present? So its your birthday is it soon? And he posted you something? Thats fantastic! That was a big sign to me when my ex did that.. you just DONT send your ex presents if you dont want to give them the wrong impression, well, I dont think you do! But.. yeah, we got to try not get too excited about these thihngs... glad you are taking it in your stride! Anyway, really happy for you...